Conversations as a Tool for Ascension: Speaking Your Way into Higher States     (part 1 of 2)

Kenton David Bell inspired from the TELOS Teachings...

What if every conversation were a staircase? Each step a sentence; each landing a shared silence; each ascent a small shift in how you see, feel, choose, and create. When we treat conversation as a tool for ascension, we stop taking words for granted. We realize language isn’t just how we describe life—it’s how we coordinate with our soul, with others, and with the larger field of possibility to rise.

Ascension, here, is not an escape from the world; it’s an elevation within it. It is the gradual refinement of awareness, integrity, and love as they express through your everyday choices—especially your speech. The spoken word becomes both practice and portal: practice for aligning with truth, and a portal that opens new realities.

Below is an in-depth, conversational guide to using dialogue as a ladder upward—organized around core questions and includes personal authority and personal power: how to claim them cleanly, express them skillfully, and use them to lift not only yourself, but the field you are in.

The Metaphysics of Conversation: Why Words Lift or Lower

• Vibration precedes form. Sound is vibration; words are patterned sound. The vibration you voice entrains your nervous system, influences the subtle field of a conversation, and nudges outcomes toward coherence or chaos.
• Attention directs energy. Conversation allocates collective attention. Whatever you speak into, you feed. When that focus is aligned with truth and care, it coheres; when it is aligned with fear or contempt, it fragments.
• Intention steers the vector. Two identical sentences can uplift or erode depending on the aim behind them. Ascension-oriented speech aims for clarity, compassion, responsibility, and creative possibility.

Litmus test: After a conversation, do you feel lighter, clearer, more compassionate, and more empowered? If yes, you ascended—however slightly. If not, there’s information for recalibration.

Personal Authority and Personal Power: The Inner Engine of Ascending Speech

Personal authority is your self-sourced right to know, choose, and speak from your inner truth. Personal power is your capacity to translate that truth into action and impact—consistently, cleanly, and without domination.

Think of authority as root, power as fruit:

• Authority is sourced from alignment: values, self-trust, lived experience, and soul guidance.
• Power is the expression: clear boundaries, decisive choices, effective requests, and steady follow-through.

Ascension asks for both. Authority without power is a beautiful knowing that never leaves the page. Power without authority is volume without wisdom.

Signs you are in your personal authority:

• You do not over-explain. Your “no” is a full sentence; your “yes” is resourced.
• You ask for what you need without shrinking or swelling.
• You are willing to disappoint others rather than betray yourself.
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Signs you are in clean personal power:

• You move from request to agreement to action—without threat, guilt, or manipulation.
• You allow others their agency, even when you disagree.
• You repair quickly when your impact misses your intention.
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Authority and power change the way you converse. Your words carry a steadier tone. People feel the boundary and the benevolence. The field gets clearer because you are.

Are You Impeccable With Your Word? The Gate of Integrity

Impeccability is the first rung of the ladder. Without it, we keep slipping.

• Spiritual meaning of impeccability: Your word is your wand. Each promise anchors a timeline; each lie fractures the field. When your speech coheres with your inner knowing, you create cleanly.
• Daily practice: 
  • Intention check: Before speaking, whisper inward, “May this be true, kind, necessary.”
  • Precision over performance: Replace filler with silence. Replace “I’ll try” with “I will” or “I won’t.”
  • Micro-repairs: When you misspeak, correct quickly. “Let me restate that more honestly.”

Ascension effect: Integrity stabilizes your frequency. People feel safer around you; you feel safer inside yourself. Safety is rocket fuel for higher states. It is also the soil where personal authority takes root.

Are You Investing Energy in Conversations That Work Against You?   The Law of Energetic ROI

Ascension is not only about high ideals; it’s about wise allocation of life force.

• Identify drains: 
  • Venting without alchemy: expression with no transmutation.
  • Gossip: counterfeit intimacy paid for with trust.
  • Catastrophizing: rehearsing timelines you do not want.
• Transmute in real time: 
  • Name → Feel → Ask → Act. “Here is what’s true. Here is how I feel. Here is what I’m asking. Here is my next step.”
  • Consent framing: “Do you want presence, reflection, or ideas?”
  • Time-boxing: “Let’s give the pain five minutes, then pivot to creation.”

Ascension effect: You stop funding lower-frequency loops and start compounding vitality. The field brightens; momentum returns. This is personal power in practice: choosing where your attention—and thus your life force—goes.

Which Conversations Uplift You? Building Ascension Circles

Uplifted talk has signatures: more breath, more space, more gratitude, more choice.

• Cultivate formats that lift: 
  • Walking dialogues—movement metabolizes emotion.
  • Voice-note threads—spacious, reflective, less reactive.
  • Council circles—phones down, a single talking piece, timed shares.
• Seed with high-frequency prompts: 
  • “What feels most alive in you right now?”
  • “What beauty did you notice today?”
  • “What is the smallest brave step you’re willing to take?”
• Close with coherence: 
  • Appreciations: specific, sincere.
  • One commitment each.
  • A shared breath or brief silence.

Ascension effect: Community resonance. Groups stabilize higher baselines faster than individuals alone. Your personal authority strengthens when mirrored by trustworthy others.

Which Conversations Do You Keep Repeating With Undesired Results? Breaking the Karma Loop

Repetitive arguments are karma rehearsals. Ascension is not avoidance; it is conscious UP-LEVEL redesign.

• Map your loop: 
  • Trigger → Story → Emotion → Behavior → Outcome.
  • Choose one lever to shift—often the story or the behavior.
• Speak at the level of pattern: 
  • “We are in our loop. I care more about us than being right. Can we reset?”
  • “When X happens, I tell myself Y and then do Z. I Am willing to try A instead.”
• Create new agreements: 
  • Time-outs, repair rituals, decision rules, check-in cadence.

Ascension effect: Each pattern you upgrade releases trapped energy. That freed energy becomes lightness, creativity, and intimacy. Personal power here looks like changing your choreography instead of trying to change the other person.

Do You Believe in the Power of the Spoken Word? Faith As Frequency Tuner

Belief is an amplifier. If you see words as creative, you steward them—and reality responds.

• 30-day ascension challenge: 
  • Retire self-curses: “I’m so bad at…” → “I’m practicing…”
  • Morning invocation: “May my words be bridges; my listening be sanctuary.”
  • Evening closure: “I release what is not mine. I keep the learnings. I bless the night.”
• Ritualize thresholds: 
  • Before meetings: “This space is for clarity, courage, and kindness.”
  • Before hard talks: light a candle and set a field.

Ascension effect: Your day starts and ends inside a coherent field. Over time, your baseline rises. This is the gentle discipline of personal authority—choosing your inner weather before the world chooses it for you.

These are gifts for you to enfold, enjoy and enlighten your path...

 I trust you'll get out of it what you need at this time...

 Love and Blessings, Kenton David Bell

Part #2 next Sunday

What is TELOS?

TELOS (τῆλος) —

TELOS is an ancient Greek word meaning “end,” “purpose,” or “ultimate aim.” In metaphysical and spiritual frameworks, it refers not to an end in a linear sense, in other words, to a divine blueprint, the soul’s highest potential, or the inherent purpose encoded within all beings and systems. Hence, TELOS.

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